I have a teaching and writing career, a nutty -- many say "super fun" -- husband who probably has ADHD, Bipolar, and definitely Manic tendencies and lots of time, apparently, to drive me insane even while he too works full time and is raising two kids and listening to me complain and boss him around. I LOVE to boss him around. He doesn't like being bossed around in a bossy way. So we are sort of in a marital crisis, when not having sex or ignoring each other. Yes, we still do have sex; more on that later.
Oh but here is where I'd really rather know more about you. Do you know any great marriages? With kids? Are they hetero? Are they over forty?? What makes it so great?